Married life is different when you were dating

Married life is different when you were dating. When married, you spend more time with your spouse. Increased responsibilities, household chores to be done to make you now not only have fun with your partner. In contrast to when you were dating the possibility of time you spend together is done in fun situations such as eating in a restaurant together, watching movies, a walk in the mall or visiting a place of recreation.

In order to create peace and happiness in the family, you must learn in order to have special skills after marriage. Here are some new skills that you must have after marriage.

Communicating Expertise
Two married people having different backgrounds. Decades have passed with the education and habits of each family are not the same. Habit or way of doing a job that you do not really still carried away by the couple after marriage.

Feeling irritated, you may direct nag with a curt tone. Then, your partner does not feel guilty, immediately responded by scolding as well. Finally, each grumbling going on and make you feel unhappy with your marriage. Another reaction is that you kept silent language support, grumbling resentment in the hearts and save. It also resulted in the relationship to cool.

Solving this problem is the need for good communication. The things which prop best discussed with your partner so as not to accumulate. But, of course, communication must be done in a good way. Instead, the issue was not discussed when the mood was still upset. Choose the right time to talk, for example, not as a new partner comes home from work and in a state of exhaustion.

Communication also includes listening. Thus, when discussing the issue, you must allow time for couples to express feelings and opinions. Then, you can explain to your partner why you do certain actions which may make it happy.

Expertise Being Tolerant
Because of differences in background, style of speech, habits or actions of a new partner can be a problem. Husband may be used to talk as it is, while the wife easily offended by words that innocent husband.

For problems like this, you should be tolerant or develop attitudes of tolerance. Real form of tolerance is that you want to make changes even if you think such actions are not wrong. Now, you should be more careful in talking or you also learn to think positive about couples that are not easily offended.

Running Tasks and Roles Expertise You Now
Newly married couples were not initially familiar with his new role now. The husband may still love to play online games, sports, or like hanging out with friends. Wife may not have been able to play its part to get up early, preparing meals, washing, ironing or tasks other household. Things like this can trigger a fight.

After marriage, you must learn to perform your role now. It is not easy to stop or reduce the activities that we like. Not easy anyway to do the job we do not like. But, that's the new task to be performed whose role as husband and wife. These things should be done by married couples.

You already know that after marriage more responsibilities that must be borne. However, by talking and working together well, you will feel that the responsibility is not a burden and there are a lot of happiness to do it together.

Expertise Forgiveness
This is one important skill in life household. Realize that your partner is not a perfect human life so that it will very likely do not know whether intentional wrong. These skills are usually also be transmitted to your partner. If you often do not condone the actions that you love, your partner will likely do the same. By seeking forgiveness, life will be peaceful and happy family.

As a new partner, you must continue to learn to develop these skills in married life. Initially it may seem very difficult to do so. However, by continuing to learn, that expertise will be owned and will be fun while doing it. You also will not regret why you married him, but you will regret why not sooner decide to marry him