It's hard to have children

Realistic Thinking
Each partner should be realistic and not in a hurry to think that there is a problem due to not having children after some time. After getting married and having sex between husband and wife without contraception with reasonable frequency, usually takes about a year to find out whether or not there are fertility problems. There are couples who have married a month, but because his wife was not pregnant and thought that there were problems with their fertility. Though natural in a period of 1 year, 85% newlywed couple will have children. When more from that time period then it is time the couple went to the doctor.



Who is Wrong?
Do not blame yourself or your partner if you have not been able to produce offspring. In some cases, the wives are blamed when not pregnant. Women are often considered to be barren and subject to error. Keep in mind, that has not got a descent that does not mean the wife is infertile, but have also examined the fertility of the husband. The possibility of a wife or husband who has a problem is 50% versus 50%, or balanced.

Immediately consult your problem to the doctor to get a solution. Having children is not only a husband or wife and the desire to work if they do not have reproductive problems. Talk to your partner with words that do not offend him to see her, because indeed it is for some people is a sensitive issue. Specify the time and the right atmosphere to talk about it.



Checking Fertility
At the examination, the husband is checked how many sperm are produced, how the movement of sperm and sperm condition. As for the wife, the examination includes the egg cells are produced and whether the channel for the sperm to the egg open. For those of you who menstruated regularly are likely to have a normal egg. Results for the husband is usually faster because it's easier to be examined.

If the results of the examination showed normal you and your partner, not in the immediate time period can be a wife. It takes patience and do not get too stressed because of a rush or a parent's insistence. Stress conditions may make it difficult of conception. Also, after having sex, do not be too quick to clean it so that the sperm soon disappear. Let stand for about 15 minutes.

If you or your partner are having fertility problems, do not despair because in many cases it can be treated with various therapies and modern medicine. Do not blame each other anyway because it does not mean your wedding will not be happy. For more information about the various techniques and types of treatments for fertility problems or infertility, can you read the following article: Troubleshooting Fertility and Infertility.